Hotwife Soirees
Exclusive Alternative Lifestyle Club for Adventurous Couples, Single Ladies & Gents
NOTICE:
The premises and parties known as 'Hotwife Soirees' is established and conducted solely as a private, alternative lifestyle (Swingers) members-funded social club.
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WE ARE NOT OPEN TO THE PUBLIC.
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​Membership Policy
​To protect the exclusivity and legal integrity of our club, we do not accept direct interest from the general public and operate a closed membership policy:​
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​Entry is strictly by vetted application via one of two membership options only-
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Priority Membership (Sponsored/Nominated Applicants) - Applicants who are formally sponsored or nominated by an existing full member known to the Club Committee will receive priority processing, with a typical verification period of 5–7 days. In addition to having a recognised sponsor, applicants must also hold a minimum of three verifications on an established alternative-lifestyle platform (e.g., FAB Swingers, SwingHub, SpicyMatch). Your sponsor and listed verifiers may be contacted to confirm your reliability, authenticity, and suitability for membership.
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Standard Membership (Non-Sponsored Applicants) - Applicants who are not personally sponsored or nominated must instead provide five or more verifications, dated within the last 18 months, from couples, single ladies, or recognised alternative-lifestyle venues/clubs on platforms such as FAB Swingers, SwingHub, SpicyMatch, etc. Verification processing for non-sponsored applicants typically takes 12–14 days, during which your listed verifications may be approached to confirm your reliability and authenticity.
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​Submission of an application is merely an inquiry and does not guarantee membership or access.​
Members Only
About Us
Hi, we're Jade and Joe, and as a couple active on the scene, we started these events for ourselves after being let down too many times by unreliable guys, so we completely understand the frustration. That’s exactly why we do this and why we enjoy it. Over time, we’ve helped many couples and solo ladies turn their fantasies of being the centre of attention, whether through an orgy, gangbang or a bukkake experience, into reality.
The polite, respectful men on our database share a genuine enthusiasm for group play and take pride in making your experience as exciting and enjoyable as possible. Unlike relying on chance encounters at clubs, our events are carefully organised to ensure your desires are met in a safe, discreet and welcoming environment.
Our Values
Diversity and Inclusivity
As a couple and party hosts, we do not discriminate on the basis of age, body type, ethnicity, disability, differing sexual kinks, religion, or social standing, because we believe that sex and intimacy are a universal commonality amongst us all. We celebrate diversity and expect everyone who attends to share and foster those same values.
While we are happy to work with couples or solo ladies who have preferences (for example, “prefer…”) we do not cater to, or encourage, rigid absolutes (“no/hate/don’t like…”).
We hope that everyone who joins us comes with the same open-minded, respectful, and inclusive attitude, ensuring that every event remains a positive experience for all involved.
Safe and Respectful Environment
We have a team of long-term lifestyle couples, females and male hosts who assist us in the orchestration and smooth execution of our parties, providing a welcoming presence, security, and support throughout each event.
To ensure a safe and respectful environment, we do not generally permit alcohol consumption (check event details for changes) by participating gents during parties (although couples may drink moderately), and we enforce a strict no-mobile and no-filming policy – all phones must be put away for the duration of the event, with limited exceptions for couples under controlled conditions. We also have a zero-tolerance policy on drugs.
We take care of everything: we vet all participants, check STI certification, and curate a safe, secure, and respectful space where your fantasies, kinks, and desires can unfold naturally – among like-minded people who truly understand the lifestyle and want some group fun.
Event Offerings
We can generally offer free overnight accommodation both on the evening before the party and the evening after. In addition, and subject to space, our communal play area includes a choice of a gloryhole or Czech-style gloryhole, a sex swing, and a king-size plus play bed. There is also a dedicated couples’ chill-out area at every party, along with our resident masseuse and hosting helper, who provide ladies and wives with complimentary full or partial body massages throughout the duration of the party.
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We provide a light buffet of sweet and savoury snacks, followed mid-event by freshly delivered pizza. For ladies and couples only, we also offer a selection of white, rosé and red wines at no cost to yourselves.
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For those ladies or couples who wish to play without protection (bareback), this can be arranged. However, all participating gentlemen must provide a valid, clear STI certificate or proof of testing dated within the last 14 days.
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How do we curate our parties? The gents cover the party costs for all lifestyle couples and single ladies attending, ensuring everyone can enjoy a relaxed, trouble-free, and carefree experience. However, this does not mean that gents are entitled to sexual activity in return. This is always explained clearly — both before the party and again once all guests have arrived — that “no” means no, “stop” means stop, and every person in attendance has full autonomy over their body, preferences, and choices. The contribution simply covers the costs involved in arranging and running the party.
Fab Swinger Testimonials
"These guys are the most amazing people you will ever meet! We had the absolute pleasure of attending one of their events recently and it was (without question) the best and most well organized events we have ever attended.
Every detail was thought of and taken care of. We felt completely welcome. Almost like we had known them all of our lives!
Constantly checking if we needed anything and that everything was OK. As for the party itself, it was CRACKING!
It was so amazing and I even got to tick a few items of my bucket list! The guys were super polite and very well behaved with all boundaries respected.
We played and played until we were exhausted! We met so many genuine and lovely people at the event. We truly hope to become regulars at future events.
Thank you so much guys! See you soon!"
​"Another fabulous gathering, a thoroughly professional event, top guys and girls.
If you’ve tried the rest it’s time to try the best! Couples and gents travel from all ends of the country to enjoy these parties Our second HWS and we will definitely be back for more. .
Book in early to avoid missing out.
Thanks guys x"
"I attended another very well organised gb by this gorgeous sexy pair x this couple pull out all the stops to make such an event go off like no other x
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The amount of organising it takes to pull off such an event takes time and these guys are meticulous in every detail x the guests and participants were all very respectful of every ones boundaries and the event went off without a hitch x
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Thank you both again for such an awesome time x I will always support your events and am so looking forward to the next one x love you guys hugs
Angie x"