Couples & Single Ladies FAQs
Our Soiree Parties
Our soirées are intimate, sociable gatherings held in a private venue, usually as daytime events with the occasional evening party. They are designed specifically for couples where the woman, often in a Hotwife or Vixen dynamic is the centre of attention. They also cater to Hotwife, Vixen/Stag, and Cuckold couples, as well as single ladies who enjoy being adored without the hassle of organising such encounters themselves or risking the disappointment of unreliable arrangements.
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These events place the wives and ladies firmly at the centre of attention to be adored, allowing them to explore fantasies that most women never get to enjoy in a safe, consensual environment. Often, these become multi-wife orgies, with husbands free to wander and play elsewhere while their partners are fully engaged.
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Our soirées are aimed towards experienced couples and confident, independent women familiar with swinging or BDSM dynamics -They are not really suited to beginners or new relationship couples.
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To enhance the experience, we aim to include all or some of the following in the communal play area at each event: a portable gloryhole, a Czech-style gloryhole, a sex swing, an oversized communal bed (larger than king-size), a couples-only chill-out space, and a masseur offering complimentary full-body, yoni, or even oral massages.
In addition, we have a small, trusted team made up of other Hotwife couples and at least two vetted male helpers (see "Meet the Team") who manage security and ensure the smooth running of each event.
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Do I need to pay in advance?
As a couple or single lady, these parties are FREE OF CHARGE.
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How much are your parties?
For couples and single ladies, all parties are FREE OF CHARGE. However, attending gentlemen are required to pay an entrance fee, which is usually under £100 – typically between £75 and £85. This contribution helps to cover venue hire, administration (including running this site), the buffet and refreshments, cleaning, and equipment maintenance.
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A light buffet and soft drinks are included for all attendees. For couples and ladies, we also provide a selection of complimentary wines to help ease any nerves. We do, however, ask that alcohol is consumed responsibly and within legal limits, particularly if you are driving.
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The consumption of alcohol is strictly prohibited for all attending gentlemen, with the sole exception of a male partner attending as part of a couple.
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Overnight accomodation
Couples or single ladies travelling from outside the local area are very welcome to stay FREE OF CHARGE at the party property the evening before the event. Please note that this may mean sharing accommodation with other like-minded visiting couples.
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As most of our events are daytime parties, we prioritise overnight stays for those travelling the greatest distance. For daytime parties running from 11:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., we can offer FREE
overnight accommodation both on the evening before the party and on the evening after the party. For our less frequent evening events, which run from 7:00 p.m. to 12:30 a.m., guests are welcome to stay overnight once we have cleaned and reset your play/bedroom after the party.
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All couples and ladies must, however, vacate the property the following morning no later than 9:00 a.m., so that we can return the property to the owner or cleaners and remove any remaining equipment we may have stored there overnight.
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Do I have to arrive at the start of the party?
We ask that all couples and ladies arrive at least one to two hours before the start of a party. This allows time for STI documents to be checked (if you intend to play unprotected), to ask any questions, set up your play area as you wish, meet and greet other couples and the hosting team, and, of course, relax, grab a drink and socialise a little before the gentlemen arrive.
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I'm/We are interested in a party – what’s the next step?
If you are genuinely interested, reliable, and committed to attending, please complete the application form provided.
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How do I apply for a party?
The application form gives us the essential information we need how best to contact you, and a few details about yourself. Please fill it out as fully as possible and note the important sections about past experience and STI testing.
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Are there expectations of me as an attendee?
We simply expect you to turn up if you have booked, and to be courteous and respectful towards all other attendees. This experience has been created for you, with the gentlemen contributing financially and setting aside their time to make it possible; however, it is not a paid-for sex service where anyone is expected to perform like a circus act. While there is naturally an expectation to enjoy what’s on offer and get involved, your choice of how you play – including what activities you engage in, how long you take part for, and when you take a break – is entirely your own. Beyond that, how you choose to take part is completely up to you.
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What happens on the day?
Upon arrival, and depending on the time you arrive, you will be offered refreshments and issued with a wristband to indicate whether we have received and verified your STI documentation (if you intend to play bare/unprotected).
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We will then introduce you to other couples and ladies, answer any questions you may have, and there is usually an opportunity for a few quick photos to help promote yourselves and future parties (this is entirely optional, and any faces, tattoos, or distinguishing marks are always obscured).
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Before the gentlemen arrive, couples are generally allocated a bedroom to use as their own play space, while single ladies are usually encouraged to play in the communal area, where there is always a host present and other couples or ladies nearby for safety and security.
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Approximately 30 minutes after check-in for the gentlemen opens, we hold a group meeting to go over the rules, explain any specific preferences or boundaries from couples, and share any other relevant information. Play will then begin and continue until one hour before the designated finish time, at which point a host will call time and give a 30-minute countdown. Thirty minutes before the party is scheduled to end, all play must stop so that attendees can clean up, shower, dress, and prepare to leave on time, allowing the venue to be cleared and cleaned promptly.
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What can I expect at a party?
Our parties are friendly, relaxed, and welcoming. The ladies who attend enjoy being the centre of attention, and many also enjoy anal; however, if a lady chooses not to offer anal, or any other activity such as kissing, this will be made clear both before the party and on the day. These preferences are displayed in writing outside the lady’s or couple’s play area and again above any bed or play space, and they must be respected at all times.
Activities such as double penetration may be acceptable for some, but more extreme or niche requests are only permitted with the prior agreement of the lady or couple involved. At any time, a lady or couple may retract or pause play and have full autonomy over their choices and preferences. After all, there is a significant difference between a 12-inch penis and a 4-inch penis when it comes to anal play, and the potential discomfort that can result.
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Can you cater to my/our kink or fetish?
Yes within reason and with respect. While the focus of our soirées is on group play where the ladies are the centre of attention, we welcome a range of kinks and preferences as long as they are consensual, safe, and agreed upon in advance.
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We also cater to cuckold couples and those who enjoy watching their partner with others. Some husbands choose to watch or move between rooms, while others take a more active role – such as assisting their partner during play, or engaging in a “creampie clean-up” dynamic afterwards, which is sometimes requested as part of a cuckold fantasy. Everyone’s dynamic is different, and we respect that.
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Themes and fantasies:
We occasionally hold themed events. For example, our last party included a “bare/breeding” fantasy (all STI certificates dated within 14 days were mandatory for bare play). Some wives in attendance wanted the fantasy of unprotected “breeding” sex – though in reality, one was sterile and another was on birth control. Other attendees still had the option to play, but with protection if they had not provided a recent certificate.
In some of our videos you might notice that gents with wristbands play bare (certificates supplied), whereas others without certification still join in but only with protection.
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We have also welcomed ladies who enjoy rougher roleplay or consensual non-consent fantasies. In these cases, a partner or trusted host remains with the lady at all times to ensure safety while still allowing the fantasy to unfold.
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Communication is key:
If you have a particular fantasy, kink, or fetish you’d like to explore, please let us know in advance. While we can’t guarantee every request can be accommodated, we always try to create a safe, consensual space where genuine desires can be explored without judgement.
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Do I need to provide evidence of STI testing?
Sexual health is paramount, and we want to ensure that everyone looks after themselves so we recommend that attendees test regularly. However, to be able to play with ladies/couples that prefer unprotected sex at our parties, all attendees (including ladies/couples) must supply an STI clear proof/certificate dated within the last 14 days of the party date. If for any reason, you fail to receive your STI on time, you will still have the option of protective play with all couples/ladies. ​
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What rules do I need to follow?
Respect is the foundation of our events. Aggression, forcefulness, and any form of boundary-pushing behaviour will not be tolerated. Some ladies may have personal preferences or restrictions (for example, no kissing), which will be explained at the start of the event and must be respected. On occasion, specific rules may vary depending on the type of party, but these will always be clearly communicated both in advance and on the day.
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Gents are also expected to be mindful of other participating gentlemen. Please do not push in or attempt to skip ahead. Always check with the person in front and behind you so that everyone is clear on their place in the order of play with a lady, ensuring a smooth and respectful experience for all —sometimes referred to as “tagging in”.
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Are your parties bisexual?
No. Other than the women who choose to play with each other, most of our party attendes are generally straight. So you should not assume that any of the male attendees are open to bisexual activities.​​
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What if I feel nervous about being naked around other guys?
It’s natural to feel anxious about nudity or self-conscious about your body at first, but those worries quickly fade once the party begins. If you are still uncomfortable, you can keep items of clothing on (for example, a T-shirt) while playing. Nobody is there to judge.
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Is there a dress code?
There is no dress code during the party. Most guests choose to be completely naked once the fun begins, but you are welcome to keep clothing on if that makes you more comfortable. However, we do ask that all guests arrive dressed smart-casual and, where possible, in trousers and a plain shirt, as if attending a formal event (e.g., a wedding, funeral, or interview).
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Are parties filmed or photographed?
Yes, we do take occasional photos and short clips, primarily to promote future events and to confirm that our parties genuinely take place. Faces and distinguishing marks, such as tattoos or birthmarks, are always removed or obscured and are never shown without explicit consent. If requested, we will also make every effort to avoid filming you altogether. Gentleman attendees are not permitted to film or photograph and must keep mobile phones away or with a host for safety keeping.