Gentleman Attendee FAQs
Do I need to provide evidence of STI testing?
Sexual health is paramount, and we want to ensure that everyone looks after themselves so we recommend that attendees test regularly. However, to be able to play with ladies/couples that prefer unprotected sex at our parties, all attendees (including ladies/couples) must supply an STI clear proof/certificate dated within the last 14 days of the party date. If for any reason, you fail to receive your STI on time, you will still have the option of protective play with all couples/ladies.
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How much are your parties?
Depending on the property size and its requirements, to cater to the number of attendees and play areas this can change. However, we prefer all our soiree parties to be in the sub-£100 price point, typically most parties are between £75-85 pricing, which includes a light buffet and soft drinks. and that allows you to stay for the duration of the party, so no hourly time limit. The entrance fee helps towards venue costs, admin time costs (e.g. this site), buffet & refreshments, cleaning and equipment maintenance.
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Do I have to arrive at the start of the party?
You can choose to arrive at any time, but be aware that many couples/ladies will take breaks from play as and when required, so a late arrival may coincide with these and it may appear that not much is happening or the lady is less enthusiastic than she likely was at the start of the party.
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I’m interested in a party – what’s the next step?
If you are genuinely interested, reliable, and committed to attending, please complete the application form provided.
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How do I apply for a party?
The application form gives us the essential information we need – where you are based, how best to contact you, and a few details about yourself. Please fill it out as fully as possible and note the important sections about deposits and STI testing.
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Do I need to pay in advance?
Yes. To guarantee your place and confirm your commitment, all attendees are required to purchase a space before the event. Spaces are non-refundable and non-transferable if you cancel, but in the rare event that we cancel a party, we will refund you in full.
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Are there expectations of me as an attendee?
We simply expect you to turn up if you have booked, and to be courteous and respectful towards the ladies and couples, as well as other attendees. Beyond that, how you choose to take part is up to you. While the ladies will always prefer everyone to join in, we fully understand if nerves get the better of you or if you have performance difficulties – there’s no pressure.
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What happens on the day?
Upon arrival, you will check in with a host, provide them with your unique password, and settle any outstanding balance. You will then be issued with a wristband to indicate whether we have received and verified your STI documentation (if you intend to play bare/unprotected).
Finally, you will be given a large clear bag in which to place all of your personal belongings. You must keep this bag with you at all times, as we cannot be held responsible for items that are lost or stolen. Ideally, anything of significant value – such as wallets and mobile phones – should be left securely in your vehicle if you are driving to the party.
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Approximately 30 minutes after check-in opens, we hold a group meeting to go over the rules, communicate any couple’s preferences, and share any other relevant information. Play will then begin and continue until one hour before the designated finish time, at which point a host will call time and give a 30-minute countdown.
Thirty minutes before the party is scheduled to end, all play must cease so that attendees can clean up, shower, dress, and prepare to leave on time, allowing the venue to be cleared and cleaned promptly.
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What can I expect at a party?
Our parties are friendly, relaxed, and welcoming. The ladies who attend enjoy being the centre of attention, and many also enjoy anal; however, if a lady chooses not to offer anal, or any other activity such as kissing, this will be made clear both before the party and on the day.
These preferences are displayed in writing outside the lady’s or couple’s play area and again above any bed or play space, and they must be respected at all times. Activities such as double penetration may be acceptable for some, but more extreme or niche requests are only permitted with the prior agreement of the lady or couple involved.
At any time, a lady or couple may retract or pause play and have full autonomy over their choices and preferences. After all, there is a significant difference between a 12-inch penis and a 4-inch penis when it comes to anal play, and the potential discomfort that can result.
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What rules do I need to follow?
Respect is the foundation of our events. Aggression, forcefulness, and any form of boundary-pushing behaviour will not be tolerated. Some ladies may have personal preferences or restrictions (for example, no kissing), which will be explained at the start of the event and must be respected. On occasion, specific rules may vary depending on the type of party, but these will always be clearly communicated both in advance and on the day.
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Gents are also expected to be mindful of other participating gentlemen. Please do not push in or attempt to skip ahead. Always check with the person in front and behind you so that everyone is clear on their place in the order of play with a lady, ensuring a smooth and respectful experience for all —sometimes referred to as “tagging in”.
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​​Are your parties bisexual?
No. Other than the women who choose to play with each other, most of our party attendees are generally straight. So you should not assume that any of the male attendees are open to bisexual activities.​​
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What if I feel nervous about being naked around other guys?
It’s natural to feel anxious about nudity or self-conscious about your body at first, but those worries quickly fade once the party begins. If you are still uncomfortable, you can keep items of clothing on (for example, a T-shirt) while playing. Nobody is there to judge.
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Is there a dress code?
There is no dress code during the party. Most guests choose to be completely naked once the fun begins, but you are welcome to keep clothing on if that makes you more comfortable. However, we do ask that all guests arrive dressed smart-casual and, where possible, in trousers and a plain shirt, as if attending a formal event (e.g., a wedding, funeral, or interview).
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Are parties filmed or photographed?
Yes, we do take occasional photos and short clips, primarily to promote future events and to confirm that our parties genuinely take place. Faces and distinguishing marks, such as tattoos or birthmarks, are always removed or obscured and are never shown without explicit consent. If requested, we will also make every effort to avoid filming you altogether.
